i was going to watch some Clannad After Story before heading off to work, but instead i want to crank out some thoughts i had in the shower before they fall out of my tired brain.
i think the reason why i’m reacting so strongly to Heavens Feel isn’t because it means the end of Fate for me. i can go back and relive the memories whenever i want, and Hollow Ataraxia hasn’t been translated either. no, i think the reason is how strongly i can relate to Sakura. obviously, i haven’t had a life as rough as hers. but for a regular human being living in the real world, i’ve been through a lot in 23 years.
when i moved up here nine years ago, i very quickly built a mask and put it on. i pretended to be happy in front of everyone, while systematically isolating myself from everything i couldn’t filter through a TV or a computer. and while i pretended, i simultaneously hated them and cursed the world for allowing all of this to happen to me. i held a grudge for the longest time against the people i believed caused this, despite how much they had helped me. i hated them because they couldn’t see what was really going on. i placed lofty expectations on everyone i met, expecting them to see through the mask, realize how much i was hurting, and try to help me. instead i ended up getting hurt, either through their own actions or through them failing to live up to my expectations. it was a very troubling time for me.
i also selfishly believed i was the only one hurting, and anyone else who said they hurt were lying to me. it only made me angrier and gave me more excuses to isolate myself.
but it turns out those reactions were the inevitable result of my own inaction. i hated people for not being able to understand me…which is a matter of course, since i never told anyone what i’d been through. most people are programmed to assume a smiling face is a happy person, and younger people especially don’t have enough experience to figure out what a “forced smile” looks like. my lofty expectations were a way to justify not telling anyone anything…when in truth, i was scared. i was deathly afraid that uncorking that bottle would turn everyone away from me. so i kept it hidden, never told a soul, and buried it under those excuses.
fast forward to my senior year in high school. i’m not quite so isolated, but i still feel alone, and it’s coming to a point where i didn’t know if i would ever recover. i was beginning to resign myself to a life of utter solitude. i’m laying on a bed in my friend’s house, with my laptop. i have to write my senior speech for english class, and i’m stumped. i sit for maybe an hour, then i just start typing something. i don’t know where i’m going, but i don’t stop my hands. it turns out i’m writing my own story. i get a chill, and a slight burst of nausea. i imagine everyone being disgusted with me and leaving me forever.
but still, i print it out.
and i tell my story, to thirty people in a classroom.
and not only did they not run away, they cried for me. and right then and there i felt my mask shatter and crumble to the ground.
over the next two years i slowly stopped expecting everyone to know everything about me at a glance, and i finally realized the people around me hadn’t been staring at my mask. they had been looking at me, mask and all. and when the mask fell, they stayed beside me. i was too busy looking down to notice all the people standing next to me as i walked down the long, winding road of life. i didn’t change much, as my masked self was simply repressing the irrational feelings i wasn’t outwardly expressing. i still hold on to a small part of my mask, as i didn’t come through those experiences unscathed, and a dark twist to my personality exists to this day. sometimes i have to put the mask back on to hold it at bay.
i could go into a comparison of how this relates back to Sakura, but if you’ve played through heavens feel you’ll know what i’m talking about and if you haven’t it would be major spoilers. and even if you don’t intend to play through heavens feel, just reading what i wrote above would be enough to understand where i’m coming from.
and cranking that out cleared my head a bit. i guess it’s time to go to work now.
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